Saturday, November 21, 2020

Building A Right Relationship With God - 5 INTEGRAL TOOLS

 



As the Father hath loved me, so have I loved you: continue ye in my love. 
 If ye keep my commandments, ye shall abide in my love; 
even as I have kept my Father's commandments, and abide in his love. 
These things have I spoken unto you, that my joy might remain in you, 
and that your joy might be full. 
John 15:9-11

 

These 5 tools are integral in helping us build a stronger, closer relationship with God:

¨     Prayer:         God Wants to Hear from You!

If you were given the opportunity to talk with the president or the queen of England, what would you say? You would probably be a bit nervous, and would think a lot about what you should talk about. But one far more powerful and important than the president or queen wants you to talk to Him! And He doesn't want you to be nervous, but to share what's on your mind and to pour out your heart to Him.

God loves us so much and understands what we are going through. That's why we can "come boldly to the throne of grace, that we may obtain mercy and find grace to help in time of need"

Let us therefore come boldly to the throne of grace, that we may obtain mercy and find grace to help in time of need.  Hebrews 4:16

How should we pray? Christ's disciples wondered the same thing, and asked Him to teach them (Luke:11:1-4 and Matthew:6:5-13).  He told them prayer wasn't for show, and it wasn't about saying the same thing over and over again. But He did give us a framework of the types of things to pray about:

ü  Praising and thanking God.

ü  Praying for God's Kingdom to come, and for His will and work to be done today.

ü  Requesting that our needs and the needs of others be met, whether healing, food, wisdom or protection.

ü  Seeking forgiveness and the help to forgive others.

ü  Asking for protection from temptation and the evil tempter.

In addition to getting on our knees in private; something that King David did,

Evening and morning and at noon I will pray, and cry aloud, And He shall hear my voice.    Psalm 55:17

we can talk to God in our minds throughout the day.  

Rejoice always, pray without ceasing,    1 Thessalonians 5:16-18

King David's Psalms and other heartfelt prayers of the Bible show us more about how this spiritual tool can help you draw closer to our Creator. 

Pray to God throughout the day. Different types of formal prayers may help you, such as the Lord's prayer that Jesus taught his disciples. However, also be personal with your prayers. Use your own words to talk to God as freely as you would with your closest friend.  Approach prayer with humility and respect.

¨     Meditation: How Do I Apply This Today?

When we've prayed for understanding and then carefully read the Bible, a natural next step is to think about what we've read and how it relates to the situations in our life. That's what biblical meditation is all about.

It's not about emptying our minds or relaxation techniques or mystical experiences at all. It's "directed thinking, reflection, contemplation or concentration" and it helps make prayer and Bible study "meaningful instead of mechanical, inspiring rather than superficial".  Beneficially, you will emerge with more clarity and more peaceful after spending time with God.

Some meditations are recorded for us in the Psalms. The psalmist said meditation helped make him wiser than his enemies and led him to restrain his feet "from every evil way"

Oh, how I love Your law! It is my meditation all the day. You, through Your commandments, make me wiser than my enemies; For they are ever with me. I have more understanding than all my teachers, For Your testimonies are my meditation. I understand more than the ancients, Because I keep Your precepts. I have restrained my feet from every evil way, That I may keep Your word. I have not departed from Your judgments, For You Yourself have taught me. How sweet are Your words to my taste, Sweeter than honey to my mouth!  Through Your precepts I get understanding; Therefore I hate every false way.   Psalm 119:97-104

Meditation helps us know where we are going—"ponder the path of your feet," as Solomon put it

Ponder the path of your feet, And let all your ways be established.   Proverbs 4:26

Some passages are worth pondering:

For though we walk in the flesh, we do not war according to the flesh.  For the weapons of our warfare are not carnal but mighty in God for pulling down strongholds, casting down arguments and every high thing that exalts itself against the knowledge of God, bringing every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ,   2 Corinthians 10:3-5

Finally, brethren, whatever things are true, whatever things are noble, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report, if there is any virtue and if there is anything praiseworthy--meditate on these things.    Philippians 4:8

If then you were raised with Christ, seek those things which are above, where Christ is, sitting at the right hand of God. Set your mind on things above, not on things on the earth.   Colossians 3:1-2

Once again, the key is doing!  God told Joshua to meditate on the Book of the Law "day and night, that you may observe to do according to all that is written in it"

This book of the law shall not depart out of thy mouth; but thou shalt meditate therein day and night, that thou mayest observe to do according to all that is written therein: for then thou shalt make thy way prosperous, and then thou shalt have good success.  Joshua 1:8

Heed the counsel found in

But his delight is in the law of the Lord; and in his law doth he meditate day and night.  Psalm 1:2

where the psalmist says to meditate (or think deeply about) day and night about the law of the Lord. Take some time after reading from the scriptures to analyze what you just read. Ask yourself what the Bible teaches us about God and His standards.

 ¨     Fasting: A Serious Power Tool

The Bible has many examples of people of God who voluntarily went without food and drink for a time to humble themselves and draw close to God

So we fasted and besought our God for this: and he was intreated of us. Ezra 8:23;

Go, gather together all the Jews that are present in Shushan, and fast ye for me, and neither eat nor drink three days, night or day: I also and my maidens will fast likewise; and so will I go in unto the king, which is not according to the law: and if I perish, I perish.  Esther 4:16;

But as for me, when they were sick, my clothing was sackcloth: I humbled my soul with fasting; and my prayer returned into mine own bosom.  Psalm 35:13

Jesus said His disciples should fast and explained that particularly vexing situations can sometimes only be dealt with by prayer and fasting

 And Jesus said unto them, Can the children of the bridechamber mourn, as long as the bridegroom is with them? but the days will come, when the bridegroom shall be taken from them, and then shall they fast.  Matthew 9:15;

Howbeit this kind goeth not out but by prayer and fasting.  Matthew 17:21

In that way, fasting can be looked on as a power tool for building our relationship with God.  But there are some things to understand first:  

ü    Biblical fasting is not for show       (Matthew 6:16-18).

ü    It's not to be undertaken lightly. 

ü    It's not to try to get something from others or to try to force God to do what we want                                                 (Isaiah 58:3-4).

ü    Fasting should first and foremost be about personally drawing near to God.    (James 4:7-10; 1 Peter:5:6-7).

ü    It should also be about compassion and sharing with others  (Isaiah 58:6-7).

Since God is the source of all power, drawing closer to Him and casting our cares and worries on Him will give us the spiritual strength we need, even while feeling physically weak.

¨     Bible Study: Listening to God

A person who does all the talking and never listens ends up with a very one-sided friendship—or no friendship at all. So besides talking to God, we need to hear what He has to say.

Most of us are blessed today to have a copy of or access to the Bible right in our own home. Why do we read the Bible? It is as necessary for our spiritual life as food is physically

But He answered and said, "It is written, 'Man shall not live by bread alone, but by every word that proceeds from the mouth of God.' "   Matthew 4:4

Both the Old and New Testaments show us how God thinks and how we can become like Him:

References:            Psalm 119:105;          Luke 24:44-45;         1 Corinthians 10:11;

2 Timothy 3:15-17;   2 Peter 3:15-18

 

We should pray that God will open our understanding and help us grow and be "doers of the word," because just reading is not enough:

Therefore lay aside all filthiness and overflow of wickedness, and receive with meekness the implanted word, which is able to save your souls. But be doers of the word, and not hearers only, deceiving yourselves. For if anyone is a hearer of the word and not a doer, he is like a man observing his natural face in a mirror; for he observes himself, goes away, and immediately forgets what kind of man he was. But he who looks into the perfect law of liberty and continues in it, and is not a forgetful hearer but a doer of the work, this one will be blessed in what he does.   James 1:21-25

Make it a habit to read the scriptures daily.

Reinforced beliefs, hope and comfort are benefits that come from building a foundation with God. Strive to know God better and draw close to him by engaging in daily Bible reading, meditation and prayer. Designate a convenient time of day, such as after waking up or before going to sleep, to read from the scriptures and pray. Following a consistent routine will help make God a daily part of your life.

Read from the Bible to better learn about God. Galatians 5:19-24 teaches about the behavior God expects and the consequences of not cultivating the characteristics of his spirit. Examples of forgiveness are found in the account of the Baal worshiper, King Manasseh, of Judah in 2 Chronicles 33:2-17, or God's examples of patience when dealing with the Israelites found in Genesis and Exodus. Get to know God's personality by reading from the gospel accounts of Jesus, who himself said in  

"He who has seen me has seen the Father."  John 14:9

Designate a space that is free of distractions such as phone calls or noisy house mates so you may read and meditate on the Bible in silence.

 ¨     Fellowship:            Friendship with God and His People

It's a dangerous world out there, and sometimes it's just good to know someone has "got your back"—is watching out for you. God put His people in His Church to support, encourage and learn from each other

That there should be no schism in the body; but that the members should have the same care one for another.  And whether one member suffer, all the members suffer with it; or one member be honoured, all the members rejoice with it.  1 Corinthians 12:25-26;

If there be therefore any consolation in Christ, if any comfort of love, if any fellowship of the Spirit, if any bowels and mercies, Fulfil ye my joy, that ye be likeminded, having the same love, being of one accord, of one mind.  Let nothing be done through strife or vainglory; but in lowliness of mind let each esteem other better than themselves.   Look not every man on his own things, but every man also on the things of others.  Let this mind be in you, which was also in Christ Jesus:  Philippians 2:1-5

Of course we also can offend and hurt each other, but one of His goals is for us to learn to reconcile and to get along. In that way, the Church is a workshop for living His way of life.

Biblical fellowship is a three-way relationship between us, God and His people:

that which we have seen and heard we declare to you, that you also may have fellowship with us; and truly our fellowship is with the Father and with His Son Jesus Christ.   1 John 1:3

God puts us each in His Church where He wants us, with our own specific part to play (1 Corinthians 12:18; Ephesians 4:16). He listens lovingly to our conversations and records His precious people in a book of remembrance (Malachi 3:16-17).

God warns us not to "neglect our meeting together" because we so desperately need to encourage each other to "outbursts of love and good deeds"

And let us consider one another to provoke unto love and to good works:  Not forsaking the assembling of ourselves together, as the manner of some is; but exhorting one another: and so much the more, as ye see the day approaching. Hebrews 10:24-25

We have so much given us from God to help us build a meaningful and lasting relationship with our Lord and Savior that we really have no excuse.  Let us all strive through the tools given us to love God, be in His image at all times; not only loving ourselves but loving others.




Biblical Studies


03/07/22




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